I think NC except for absolute necessities dealing with the kids is necessary for your sanity.
Perhaps you should also change your phone number to get OW to leave you alone.
Although I had to chuckle about the dog on the leash thing, were those your actual words? If so, I'd predict his response was angry/defensive? I think a clear statement will go further - I do not want OW contacting me. I will change my number if I have to. Please tell her to stop contacting me.
I'm soooo sorry you are in the middle of all this right now.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2