Minkerman is done

[cw68]

Not bad, MM. Of course, what we all want is for our S to run up to us and say, "I made a HUGE mistake! Yes, let's be together forever!" but the reality of it is that they need to be as sure as they can if/when they come back or the cycle will most likely repeat. I think part of my husband's mind can't get around the idea of coming back because he sat there wanting to escape for so long.

I think you're in good shape and are reacting honestly as well as comforting. Keep it up.