I don't know Im at a loss...

My best friend called me and asked if My H and I could got out Friday night to dinner and to watch this irish band.. I was really up for it until I talked to H..

Me: I wanted to ask you if you would like to go to dinner and to watch a band friday night, my mom could watch the kids?
H: we really don't have the money for that right now do we?
me: I think we can spare some since we haven't had a night out alone in months.
H: I don't know, We have lots of bills coming up..
Me: Ok, I just call and tell her know then, It would have been nice to go though.
H: ok, Talk to you later..

what the hell..Im telling you, we can spare the $$ , He has no problem spending it on other things.. He just didn't want to go with me.

Im ready to blow up... Im making an effort her and he just doesn't get it or just doesn't care. He on work mode and that is the only thing he is passionate about, because its not me.

I don't know if I should just drop it, or what. Im going to keep my distance... because I know I will say something I will later regret.

tal


me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.