Amy,

Don't get upset.

She doesn't see that she is the one who actually can control her own destiny.

All she has to do is to take the focus off of her Husband and start the work on herself.

Do you remember when we had to face ourselves in the miror and actually see who we were?

The ugliness and the selfishness?

One day she will get there.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.