I have always been an honest person and have always expected it from others who are dealing with me. It caused me much heartache that my x lied to me even after the D he continued to do so. He knew / knows how much I value it. His reasoning was he didn't want to hurt me !! well I fond out anyway and still find things out-life has a habit of putting truth in your face even if your not looking and one lie leads to another and so on. He always said I was the most honest person he ever met-told friends the same-obviously he didn't value it as much as I do. So I got left for some low life who couldn't speak the truth if her life depended on it. So yes honesty is my No 1 priority.