I said can't get an apartment w/you the way things are now...he said then maybe we can get you and apartment. I said oh b/c you aren't planning to change?? He acted all flustered and said that isn't what he meant, that I just said I didn't want us to get an apartment so he offered to get me one....I said obviously I would prefer things changed instead!
Not a real good exchange here. As a guy, I hate this kind of exchange, where something I say is twisted around. If I were in your husband's shoes I would have preferred, "thanks for the offer" or "let me give it some thought", to what essentially was a dig.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
