I might not need to know EVERYTHING either but there are some big doosies out there
like I might not want to know that I have dragon breath in the morning (partly because I already know)
My ex like to use "honesty"in cruel ways...like I get that I need to lose weight I don't need it thrown at me everyday (and that makes we want to eat to drown the pain...cyclical much)
anyway
For me honesty is very important
I have had friends say some pretty blantantly horrible things. THings that weren't true...and didn't need to be said but htey were forhte effect that their response would have on other people...
a kind of letting me know my place sort of thing
that really made me question their friendship (which it should)
there are people..andIfeel badly for them...that always need to be on top and a lot of time that comes at the expense of the people around them and usually at the expense of the people that believed in them the most
BF and I have a strict honesty policy...i have been married to a sociopathic compulsive liar...truth is important to me...it's how I base my judgements
the truth might not be easy but it is crucial
and
whoever said wehave to be honest with ourselves is right on
(right on my brutha)
so I have to realize and understand when I ask the question that BF will give me tha absolute truth and maybe sometimes i don't want to know if these pants make my asssssss look big they are comfy and that is the only truth I need, right?
