Sorry for being confusing earlier. I'm stressed, not getting a lot of sleep and I think I leave words out of sentences
BTW you might not point it out to her on a regular basis that it wasn't just your fault....but it is something to note for yourself. And if asked, might be ok to bring up.
For us, when he'd ask why, I'd recant how I felt the 2 years or so before that. Each day gone, I have another reminder of something bad.
He had told me around Christmas that he thinks we could reconcile (With God's help - he seems to bring God in when it's convenient to him).....and I told him there was no way - too many bad, I'm the same person he hated, etc. === he said he thought I must be further along, because he "only remembers the good" ........ as he's living with his girlfriend
NUTS I tell ya!
P.S. All of that said, do remember you more than likely did have a part in it too, so you have to figure out YOUR part of it and work on that. I don't want to seem like I'm saying you're blameless, just know it didn't happen overnight all by your lonesome.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
