Oh and please just don't lurk, if you came to read this than you can post a response
Control much lately?
Just kidding.
Does anyone really want complete honesty? It doesn't do a relationship any good to hear about every time that you are upset with them if it doesn't amount to much and can just blow over. I do think a person needs to be forthcoming with their feelings if there is something that stands in the way of the relationship meeting its full potential. Of course my partner would need to be faithful to me. I'd expect she would be honest about her feelings for me and about our future together. It seems that some walk-aways continue to talk about events that will occur in OUR future while thinking about walking away. But unless there is something sneaky and underhanded that underlies a little white lie, I'm not going to pick apart a little white lie and get all upset about it. There are plenty of people that have been burned that scrutinize what you say, word for word, and jump at any inconsistency, even if it's just a slip of the tongue. I don't think that "honesty" means that I need to know every little thing about what my partner is doing or thinking.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
