Hello Mr. MLC part deux!!

[mymonkeybug]

I just wanted to share a thought...I was looking through other forums and reading some other threads in hopes of finding something helpful and I have noticed that there is an awful lot of other people in a very long term M that is now falling apart. For instance H and I M for 15 years together almost 20 and I see others in here M for, 18, 20, even 24 years with teenage kids now and the marriage is in dissaray and trouble. Is there some serious epidemic here? Now I know there are those of you wonderful men here that are helping me who have WAW's but it seems like the majority of folks here in the boards posting are women whose H's have walked away.

I don't want to offend any of you but how in the world can it be so damn easy for men to just up and walk out on their families because of finances or what they think is a better piece of a** or some other dumn f*** reason. Oh yeah, the anger towards H is growing now as you can tell...and again I don't mean to be judegemental as I know not ALL of you great men would walk out so Kerry, RTL, FG, Bryan, and others don't take my ramblings as an attack towards you all personally for it isn't.

And how after so many years of being your wifes best friend and lover and soul mate can you walk out and literally shut down 200% emotionally with her as my H has done? He can't barely look me in the eye, hardly speaks to me, and doesn't call or text unless it is in reply to me. He doesn't initiate anything except the text yesterday asking for 3 years worth of W2's for us each knowing I just went back to work in October from being a fulltime mom for almost 9 years.

OK, yep see I have learned to come here and journal my thoughts instead of calling him and reaming him with them. I am getting that part of all this at least.