When I moved out of our house while W was involved in her A I moved in with my sister who has 4 grown up daughters, two of whom are still at home with her. During that time all of them got to know of my marital situation.
Anyway of one my nieces is having a 2nd birthday party for her daughter and has invited me, W and D6. I told W about the invite but she just said there's no point in her going cos no one (sister or nieces) will talk to her. That's not strictly true but I don't think W can see beyond how she has hurt me, and how she perceives she will be view by my family. She has it in her head that anyone in my family whose knows about our sitch will be against her. Actually added to that list will be my Mom who W told me at Christmas that she didn't like her and SIL who W used to confide in until I explained to SIL that I hadn't walked out on my family. (W told her I had to try and cover up the A).
Anyway me and D6 will be going to the party cos we went last year (so did W).