If you recall, in January, she opened up her own checking account, and ordered her employer to deposit her payroll into her own account. At that time, we agreed that I would (continue to) pay all of the bills, and she would deposit money into my account for this purpose. Tomorrow will be the fourth paycheck that she has received under this arrangement, yet she has made just one deposit into my account. The car payment and mortgage are currently delinquent (damaging my credit).
I sent her the following email message: Attached is the most recent statement of our shared expenses. Tomorrow will be the fourth paycheck that you have received since moving to your own bank account. As of today, you have made only one deposit into my account.
The car payment is now 30 days delinquent, and as of Monday, the mortgage payment will also be 30 days delinquent.
Can you please help me understand your reluctance to share in the burden of our family's expenses?
Also, we are scheduled to meet tomorrow at lunch, presumably to discuss logistics for the divorce.
