Now, as you know, I seem to be doing all of this wrong. But I would ask. Is it possibile to in a non-accusing way to ask if he came home and took a shower before going to the gym? I know the times don't jive if this is the case but maybe he will give an explanation? Like I said, just a thought, you are much better at this than I am ;-)

Me~34
H~38
D6.5

EA/PA-DEC.07

Moved out~Apr.13,08
Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08
No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009