MMF - I'm so sorry she had you served at work. My H did the same thing. Unfortunately that is the only place they can be sure they will find you between specific hours so there you have it.

I am completely amazed by your story about the stories you picked for your bible study. Esther was the subject of our women's bible study last night! I was not well versed in her story before last night. We were talking about there being no coincidences in life, only God directed occurences that we naively chalk up to coincidence out of our own lack of faithfulness.

That 3 people who know you had studies in or were thinking on the story of Esther on the same day HAS to mean something. Esther was put in a prominent place in order to save the Jews from being annihalated by Haman. Is it possible that God may be showing you that He is putting someone in your wife's life or yours to intercede in some way to save your marriage? It's just a thought on my part but THERE ARE NO COINCIDENCES so something is definitely going on here. God is sending you a sign and now you need to interpret it.

I pray that you can quickly come to peace with your wife's decision to file. Like you said, you knew she was going to have to see this through to feel like she was taking control of her life.

Take care of you and your kids. W will have to deal with the consequences of her actions at some point. Let's hope it's sooner than later for both of your sakes.


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!