I am blown away by the turn around in your sitch. Can you see the connection to your own healing? Your honesty with your W about your own unforgiveness....but, your admission of your love for her....is an awesome testimony to the power of unconditional love. Take it slow....don't manipulate....let your heart....and I hope your Faith....lead you!
Your HEALED marriage will be so much better than the old dead marriage. You need to thank your W for having the strength to open up to you again....regardless of where this ends up!
Praising God Daily, Remaining "FaithfulH" Me: 62 W: 62 D:33 S:30 & 31 Married: 40 Years BD: Sep 2006 Piecing: May 2007 2nd BD: May 2014 Working On It: Today