Dude, I think she's just trying to tell you that all the things you are feeling are normal and if I may add...the thing that really takes strength and fortitude is the effort we all make in order to broaden our visions and get outside ourselves. Something the other parties in our relationships aren't doing.
Ya feel me?
She is still rockin' and rollin' !!!
Ya know - my ex still "says" he doesn't blame me, but still can't admit to having any kind of inappropriate relationship with her. Seeing our errors? She's exactly right. He still can't admit he was wrong in anything. Everything he says to me now - lip service.
Take care of you, fix you and see what you could have done differently......and work on that. But make the changes for you, not to "save this marriage"....
Actions - NOT words. Actions.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
