Ok now this really hit a chord with me. How dare your H think that he can spend that much time with 2 small children! And I agree...you are nursing and neither you nor your S can be apart form each other that long. A few hours sure but over night or a whole day...no way! How insensitive can a H be really?
I nursed my D for almost 18 months and would recommend the same or longer for anyone.
Can you get medical support for this...I know Canada isn't a big BF country but surely you can get support from La Leche League or some other pro BF group. Could you maybe go to a child psychologist and ask them to support you?
Even though you might not want to fight for your M you need to do everything possible to fight your H on this.
Be strong and good luck
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
