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Move on ? I was just getting interested in your thread again , Wi ! I mean.. you know. since Muriel um.. blew out of town.. left me and everything ? Back to the left brain/right brain relationship again.

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Well, just remember you asked for it Tom.
Let's see, I'm trying to keep in mind that the Hoover is just a rebound R for me. It's best not to get sucked into anything really heavy or committed right now anyway! I don't think I could face getting hosed again. You know what happens, in the beginning you're turning her on, she can't wait for you to change her bag, to fondle her accessories but then it happens, that inevitable loss of suction. You plead with her to go to the repair shop together but she says she's fine, you're the one with the problem. It always happens in these kinds of R's and then finally the motor burns out. I'm not goin' there again! Uh Uh.


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lmao!! now I'm going to bed smiling, lol (gotta smile about something!) you guys are a hoot \:D


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Hmm, going to bed smiling, you weren't sitting on your hands were you?


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lol !!!!!! great idea but nope, will try that next time \:D


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Who says there's no God! My W just called and according to her accountant the SA she signed screwed her out of all the tax deductions for the kids, guess who gets to claim all the deductions? ME ME ME!!!! OK, I'll probably agree to alternate claiming years cuz it's the fair and right thing to do. Yet, somehow it feels good to know that my lawyer was better than hers! Nah nah ne nah nah. Now she has to be nice to me so I'll co-operate, it must be killing her inside \:\) \:\) \:\) \:\)
I'm so happy I just might sit on both hands before going to bed!


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yey!!! doing a dance for you, \o/ \o/ \o/ \o/ good for you!


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wii,

Don't expect her to be nice for any reason, even involving money. It seems like that dog won't hunt anymore! She's lost the ability to show any human emotion toward you. It wouldn't matter if you were on fire, she wouldn't put you out.

I'm sorry I started the sitting on your hand(s)thing......

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Before you change the agreement - what makes the most business sense?

For instance - let's say YOU take the deductions, and at your income level and tax status, it saves you $2,000.

Let's say SHE takes the deductions, and in her bracket, it only saves her $1,000.

It would make more sense for YOU to take the deductions every year and share it with her by giving her an extra $1,000.

Now, if your incomes are similar, there may be no difference and alternating years may be simplest.

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Why not wait until the D settlement to give her anything. She signed the agreement, it isn't your responsibility to fix it for her. If you still feel the same way after D, fine. For now, just leave it be. You have a year before taxes come up again.


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