I know what you mean....my H wants sympathy from me....he keeps telling me "you know how it makes me feel to have to call my kids everyday and not see them?"

Uh, your choice there buddy!!

You can do this KPK....I agree, being friends is very hard...I am not my H's friend right now, I am friendly or kind to him and not ugly, but that is it. It will be along time before I am over the hurt enough to be his friend. If you dont think you can be your H's friend right now, tell him. Tell him you need time. I know my H doesnt like me not being his "friend" but he will get over it.

Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
M-37 H-37
S-10, D-15
M- 1993
First bomb- 12/23/06
Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10