I told him how I have felt that God has plans for my family and I have had this feeling for a long time that it is not over between me and my wife. I have asked God to please be patient with me as I can be extremely dense and it may take Him to hit me with a 2x4 to know when He is trying to tell me something.
I do believe, although many people would doubt my sanity, that God is telling me to be patient and that He is in control.
I am so sorry that you have to go through this. I know so very well what this feels like. Because I wouldn't answer my door after 10 pm, I was served at work, too. I knew it was coming because H had called me and told me.
I feel the same about God not being done with H and I. Unfortunately, God does have to hit me over the head to get to me sometimes. I can be very thick headed. We are here for you. I am glad you have a mentor to help you through this.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
