Oh Forrest-you are such a doll. You could have just told me you would get back to me since you were so sick. I hope you feel better really soon.

I know you will have some wise nuggets for me. Right now I have decided to just go along as if things are normal, or at least the normal they have been the last 3 months. Until I get served with these so called legal seperation papers I will not fret or panic anymore. I did all that with him earlier and begged and pleaded and asked him to please not do this to his family. You know the usual needy stuff.

The kids and I will go on this trip and come home refreshed having had a very good time.

My thought is this...almost like an epiphany...so let's say he decided not to do this that won't really make our situation any better as we will still be in this sperated rutt. At least if he did file, there would be some movement to what is happening and things can be brought out into the open and he will finally be forced into giving me straight answers I think as opposed to all the I don't knows and one thing one day then something else the next. Just a thought, maybe a way off one but my brian is still buzzing.

Yep you know me by now, Analyzer Heather always thinking about how to change the scenario and what makes it tick.

Really though FG get well and reply when you are up to it. I can wait a couple days or a few if need be. Heck I will be leaving Sat. and don't know if I will ahve access or time to get online.


Both 35
T 19/M 15 years
S8/D5
It's over bomb/ILYBNILWY 12-22-07

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