I dont' have alot of time for a long post but Jenny if that were me I would go into protective mommy mode. Your son cannot be away from you that much. The courts here don't see it that much time with H is a good thing for your son. No way. Research that carefully. He may threaten but there is no way he can enforce that. A baby that small will never adjust to that kind of change all the time.
Dbing is one thing and not wanting the D, but the mental health of your kids is another.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
