Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 months. We are exclusive.
He wanted to visit a friend of his in New Orleans. At first I was invited, then, without saying anything to me, he got himself a ticket for a week long trip there.
I brought up the fact that first he had wanted me to come with him and now he just went and got a ticker, he said that he didn't think I would want to take off all of those work days.
Originally we were going for an extended weekend and he got a ticket for a full week.
I let this go, but last night, the night before he was to leave he hung out with some friends who were leaving the country, instead of with me, whom he had plans with. He invited me to eat with them on their side of the town though. Anyway, we got in a fight about this over the phone.
I haven't heard from him today at all. He normally texts, emails and calls throughout the day.
My male co-worker thinks its a red flag that he went to New Orleans a party town over springbreak without me.
This guy does many really nice things for me and he's normally very considerate. ANy thoughts?
