So having a very stubborn wife, who once she goes into a shell is very hard to get anything out of should I be the first to ask her to coffee in a month if things are relatively amicable? Or am I just being stupid here?
I have a H that's the same way. We have two D's and quite frankly, I think this is the only reason I have any contact right now.
You can ask. Watch her reaction (I'd ask in person if possible) and depending on you see and what happens....let it go and leave the ball in her court.
