If you want maybe I can offer an perspective on what your H is saying about the OW and still contacting her.
Perhaps he clearly knows it's wrong. He is full of guilt about it and doesn't want to see her. However, she fills some sort of need in him. She makes him feel good. Tells him how wonderful he is. How manly or whatever. It's like a drug.
How do I know, because this G27 I've met is doing the same thing to me. I know it's wrong, but it feels good to have someone treat you that way with no strings.
