Thanks for stopping by. I am sorry to hear your pain. I haven't read your threads yet, but I will stop by to offer my support. It saddens me to see the anger that builds as time goes by. When first experiencing it from my husband I couldn't understand it, but since finding this board and becoming the LBS myself I can certainly understand the pain and anger my husband feels. I sometimes wonder if I can forgive my husband once he comes to his senses and returns. Just yesterday out of nowhere I began to remember all the hurtful things that he has done and said (both to me and our friends and family). Initially I will be overjoyed, but once the dust settles will I be able to forgive and trust him again?
With that being said, whether or not to forgive my husband is not an if rather a when. Forgiveness is not only for my marriage, but FOR MYSELF and for the people in my life both present and future. I give reasons for this in another thread. Link below "Forgiveness". Also I have started part 2 to this thread since you wanted to continue to follow.
