WAW...now the LBS Part 2

[brantacan]

HiC,

I'm on my second read. It has been invaluable to my DB efforts. You can go to Oprah's website and download the first 2 discussions/classes she's had with Tolle. She's doing one every Monday for 8 more weeks.

Anyway, I am really at peace with my situation. Still hopeful and committed, but not losing myself in my thoughts. W and I have spoken maybe twice in last few weeks. I had to call about some logistical things, and when I called the second time to follow up she picked up the phone and was in tears and just very sad. She seems so confused even though she still mentions topics related to D. I let her know that I am here for whatever support she needs, but left it at that. I sensed frustration on her part because I'm coping and actually doing well, while she is in a great deal of pain. Its tempting for me to want to write her or call her in an attempt to console, because part of me feels as though she wants attention from me, but another part of me fears it will push her away. So, that's the current sitch. I plan to continue to give her space and be supportive from a distance.

Thanks for asking