I think no matter what you do you will be criticized for it. Help him move? You kicked him out. Took the kids and did something? cold and uncaring. Stood and watched? Bitch. You can't win.
I think you're probably right, but then the "can't win" thing has been going on the last couple months in my marriage I think anyway! I will have to be gone I think for much of his moving in the morning, then I thought when I got back I might do a combo of taking the kids for donuts but asking if H wanted any, and then when I got back if he had anything left to do I would help out. I will take Husband's suggestion to ask if he needs help so it won't look like I am kicking him out, but I think H knows pretty well none of us wants this in our family but him!!! Karen
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