Well, I took my state exam and don't know how well I did, but then everyone who takes it says the same thing. It could go either way, but if I fail, I'll just keep taking it till I pass. How's that for determination?
Now, just have to concentrate on finishing up two more academics and graduation. Then I can get a full time job instead of my little internship. It's going well though, I am learning in this new environment.
Oh yeah.....and the big D is staring me in the face like a hungry pit bull. It will become final shortly after I graduate. My apologies in advance to any pit bull lovers.
And Joie, you will be happy to know that it was somewhat sunny this weekend, so I got off my ass and planted a few primroses. Nice how a bit of color in the planter boxes can be cheering. It was a small, but important, step for me. :):):)
Kimmie, Congrats on getting the state exam out of the way. I hope you passed! If not, try, try again! It sounds like you're keeping busy. That's a good thing.
You're ahead of me in the spring planting department! I am envious.
Kimmie, My life is under threat. Know if anything happens to me my intent is to conclude our dissolution amicably. Jimmie
What the hell is he playing at now? I didn't respond, but I passed this info to our former C and will tell my lawyer as well. Either H crossed the wrong person and should file a police report, or H is suicidal and should be hospitalized.
Kimmie, OMG! Perhaps he is in some sort of trouble. The OW isn't/wasn't married is she? (Thinking of a possible threat from her H.) I hope he goes to the police if he truly feels threatened. Are you sure you shouldn't contact him to find out what's going on? That is scary.
I agree with Joie! I have been trying to go dark with my H since he moved out, but if I got an email like that, I would probably have to break down and call him, make sure he is OK and find out what is going on!!! Karen
I know, it's hard for me not to respond, but he has his GF to take care of him. Besides, I think he's just trying some emotional blackmail. The reality of the D might be hitting him because by now H has read my response and has seen that I want more spousal support and to shed his last name as well.
Plus, it's not as though H said "Know that i loved you..." he said, "Know that I want to conclude our dissolution amicably".
Plus, it's not as though H said "Know that i loved you..." he said, "Know that I want to conclude our dissolution amicably".
That was a somewhat cold-hearted way to put that after 12 years of marriage. Perhaps he's just keeping you at a distance as WAS seem to do. It's their self-defense. I sure hope he isn't playing some sort of emotional blackmail game with you.
So, I break down this morning and text H "Are you ok?" and two seconds later he texts back that he is a target for some vengeful gangbanging dopers who he ratted out to help some guy get custody of his two boys, yadda, yadda.....
Sigh.....why did I know it would be more drama? H said he wanted "calm in his life". But for some odd reason, H felt the need to share this with me.
So, I just text back, "Take care of yourself." H says, "Will do." How exciting....
Do you think your H is having an MLC? He is my H's age, and I am convinced my H has been going through MLC for at least a year now. They do weird things like H said he wanted a woman with "less baggage" than I but then got involved with a married woman with kids and stepkids (I've been told they are emotionally dysfunctional with anorexia and troubled., and she's been married at least 2 times already, H would be her 3rd marriage...He wants serenity in his life, then totally uproots everything in his life? I think he is in MLC for sure, maybe your H is too? Karen
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