dar, In some cases it doesn't have to be doing different things that take more time, or more money. It can be just doing the things you already have to do with a different attitude, or in a different way. Your daughter is getting older every day, maybe there are some daily activities that she can participate more in? Have her help more in the kitchen, in a fun way. There are recipes and cookbooks for kids, she's old enough that with a little help, there is a lot she could do. And spending the time enjpying her beats the heck out of worrying about what H is doing, I'd think!
(((((dar)))))
Less of what doesn't work! What you are doing now isn't working, for you! So try to change it up, even little things.
