Since we've been living like roommates for the last 7 months, and I got the ILYBNILWY, and he told me he's not at all attracted to me because of my hinderances in our sex life, I should be ready for this, right? Ha!
I'm not sure anything can make us ready for the moving out day. It is just plain painful, no matter what the siutation leading up to it has been.
I just want to say I'm sorry and that I shared your situation. XH and I were separated for 20 months, seeing each other 4-5 times/week in connection with S. And what I wanted to tell you about it is just to try every day to live for you and for the kids, doing what makes you sane and happy. You can be friendly toward H because it is the right and kind thing to do. If it helps with H, great. But GAL is for you. H may come through crisis quickly and see you for the wonderful wife and mom you are, and he may not. But you and the kids must thrive regardless.
