It's your choice.
just remember this though:

while your wife may need space; your daughter needs the opposite.
She NEEDS YOU.
I'd say, call her every night like you were thinking.
and also, make sure you see her in real life regularly.

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle