I agree with Saffie, do what you are comfortable with.
Personally, I would be afraid that I would show too much emotion in my face, but that may not be a problem for you.
This is a fine line. I would maybe "ask" nicely if he needs help. It can be taken as being "thrown out" if not handled right. It you don't help if can be taken as "she does not care"
Ya are going to have to play it by ear.
Sorry was not more help Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
