... In your situation, living under the same roof is KILLING your chances of reconciliation. How can you work on improving yourself when you are living in fu*ing misery.
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My opinion... the only shot you have of saving your marriage is if you agree to move out ASAP. That will give each of you a chance to work on yourselves and prepare you for a much better marriage.
Fish... separation may have eventually worked out positive for you. Or, at least for the moment. However, for most people, it doesnt. So, I would caution you against a mindset where you think that separation is a wonderful tool to repair marriages.
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Think about it... If you would have separated 3 months ago, you may have been back together in another 3 months (took me 6 months). START NOW.
again... just because YOUR marriage took 6 months of separation to bring it back together. doesnt mean that is some kind of magic number, where all marriages will be fixed after 6 months of separation.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
