One of my husband's issues is that we don't have a lot in common and for months before the bomb, we didn't have much to say to each other. He was saying all the other stuff to the OW in his EA. She defended herself saying that their conversations were limited to travel, food and life's general up and downs and that left me thinking, "Hey, he's supposed to be saying this stuff to me like he used to... " As for similar activities, he had pretty much stopped doing everything but marathon train and work. The things we used to do, hike, camp, volunteer, politics, etc. just weren't interesting to him anymore.
Will just have to wait and see, I guess.
Thanks for replying, I appreciate it and am very genuinely happy for you and Mrs Fish.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
