Formerly posted under Living in MLC Misery (couldn't get the link in for some reason).

H has decided this Saturday is moving day to his new place. We told the kids- it was horrible, lots of begging and crying. I really hate him for putting them through this. He's been all happy and busy getting his new place together.

Since we've been living like roommates for the last 7 months, and I got the ILYBNILWY, and he told me he's not at all attracted to me because of my hinderances in our sex life, I should be ready for this, right? Ha! Nothing I've done for the last 7 months has made a difference in how he sees me (I've GAL, tried to keep a PMA (although failed at times), etc...). I'm still his "best friend", that's it.

I just don't know how I'm supposed to act now. I'll be seeing him at least 3 days a week because of the kids, he'll be coming into the house to pick them up for school one day a week, tucking them in one night per week, and seeing them every other weekend. I'm at a loss as to what to do. I can't go dark because of the kids, I've been acting friendly and we have a good relationship, which is what he wants and what I guess I'm supposed to do, but he doesn't view me as anything more than that. I have no idea how to shake things up- nothing has moved in 7 months.

Does anyone have any advice at all?

Thanks.


Me 39
H 45
T13 M11
D6.5 S4
ILYBNILWY July 07
OW e-mails found 12/15/07
H moved out 3/15/08