Out of the Blue?

[jandn]

Yes that idea doesnt sound very well. You are both jointly responsible for those credit cards so it sounds like you are paying yourself (and interest to the company). From the lawyer I talked to, he said dont even worry about the house yet. We can always work that out later. If I buy W out, that is negotiable on how to pay it off if you dont have the funds right now (i.e. certain amount a month or give more marital items to W). That cash advance is going to incur numerous charges if you carry over every month.

I think its recommended that when you separate to get off everything you can that is joint especially when they are talking D cause you both will be jointly responsible no matter who charges what. Hang in then and do some research on this cause I know you want to please W but you got to protect yourself too.