H- I don't love her. I'm with you, aren't I? I love you. M- You know I love you, but I can't do this anymore. H- I love you. M- Then why aren't you home? H- I'm working on it.
NCB, Yes, I agree he has gotten himself into a major pickle and can't figure out quite how to get out of it. The qoute above has had me wondering what he meant when he said he was working on it. At the time I wasn't thinking clearly and didn't ask him how he was working on it.
As you know the OW is his secretary. She divorced her husband, it was final in August. I have read so many times, that the WAS will feel guilty about what they have also involved OP in. It's hard for us to see this, but time and time again I see proof of this on these threads.
My DD19 has started working part-time for H, he is a contractor. Last night he was telling me how good she was getting at reading blue prints and helping him take off material on them. You know how your mind starts thinking, well, I'm wondering if he isn't trying to train DD19 to do OW's job and maybe the OW will quit if she gets fed up enough.
I think H is feeling guilty that OW divorced her H and this is her source of income. Funny, though how they don't seem to feel guilty of what they did to their families...
Again, my mind is just working overtime, perhaps. I won't put too much stock into it.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon