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My thinking is...if we do the work on ourselves it's a win win

if we reconnect it's a win because we have put some hard work into ourselves, learned how to be better people, learned what we can and can't deal with etc

if we miss reconnecting it's a win because we have put some hard work into ourselves, learned how to be better people, learned what we can and can't deal with etc


Fabulous. Just. Fabulous.

This is exactly what needs to be said.
Again.
and Again.

Very nice.

~ swl


Look not mournfully into the past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy future, without fear. {Henry Wadsworth Longfellow}