I am livid. I know the answer to this is detaching but I am livid nonetheless. H calls me at work this morning at 9:30, I start at 7:30 he starts today at 10 and should have D to daycare by 9:30. He is looking for her snowpants they are in my car, I require a lecture on this. Then he starts complaining that she just woke up and he still has to get her dressed and is going to be late for work and that she is going to freak out because she has to wear the daycare snowpants. (she is 4 - what 4 year old sleeps till 9:30 not on my day off!) So I decide to drive the snowpants over to daycare, on my way i call H to say I am doing this and does he want me to come home and take her. So off I go to home, he was in such a rush to be on time for work that he is on the computer when I get there. We get out into the car and as I am driving to her daycare I get a text. I thought it was the thank you I didn;t get in the house. Nope, it said "So now you are breaking into my car" WTF???? I had no idea what he was talking about and he replied that I was sending texts from his phone. Then refused to answer any of my replies to this accusation or when i phoned to discuss. Now I am telling you all here, I have not been in his car and i have not sent any texts. I finally called him at work and he asked what time I woke up this morning because there was a text to his phone from his phone with nothing in it at 5:30. I said where you not there when i hit snooze 2 times at 6? He said I will call you back and never did.
Breathe.
There is little in this world that makes me more angry than being accused of lying.
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009