Originally Posted By: Jeanette1120


Neither do I want to feel like second best. Or last resort. Or he couldn't find anything better. and he's only returning because he's settling.

This makes me feel stupid.

Honey, we are not 2nd best. We are THE BEST and nothing else measures up to us.

Something that bugs me though is how posters that are done with their M come back here to post how stupid it is to 'stand' or still want our WAS after long periods of time. I know those posts are done with good intentions but it isn't something that helps ME. I may be stuck as far as the MLC H is concerned, but I've turned around the rest of my life to make it productive and one that I am proud to be living again after sinking to the lowest of lows for me. Then I hear the applause for someone that is D'd and how happy they are and telling us basically to 'get over it' and quit waiting. That doesn't do much for making me feel very smart. It would be interesting to hear how many of the happily D'd people initiated the D or was it the exspouse?
Well, there's another threadjack.


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