You keep talking about chemistry. My H and I had it up until the very day we separated, even (especially?) between the bomb and the day he moved out, but now he's all about separating his physical feelings for me from his emotional feelings for me. My therapist thinks that's a mistake, but it's not for me to tell H what he does is a mistake.

Do you mean chemistry that you can't control? Or what?


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.