Funny, I just read over there, but this hammers what I needed to know I think. So, it appears that I am working toward or entering step 3... she does not call/text except for a reason but will share about herself when we talk on the phone.
So, once again, you are the greatest of help...and it's such a shot of PMA for the sitch when you break it down for the "clueless wonder poodle"