Ugh! I woke up this morning sick...and I feel like my butt is just getting sorer by the minute. I am thinking of leaving work but I have a lot to do and I am having trouble accessing things from home....so I will probably just end up staying.
H's job will definitely put less strain on me...now, if I could only sell that house! He is going to orientation today and will find out more about the hours he will be working. Hopefully this will get his self esteem up.
Yes GF, I feel like I am bending over backwards for my H and he seems to be ambivalent. That is why I feel like I should back off for a while. Let him make contact. Hopefully I won't feel the need to contact him as much now that he has this job. Before a lot of my contact was because I was worried about him paying his bills or even having the money to eat.
Patience is the hardest for me. I am like your H GF...I want things solved now. My H is more like you. He always needs his space. If we would argue or disagree about something then I would want to discuss it right then. H would need to cool off first.
