Yoyo,

Yep, H is missing you alright. I suspected that was what is driving his awkward behavior as you described earlier.

I agree with Sara and the others -- OW is definitely out to sabotage your recovery. Your H is in a pretty pickle with that, a tight rope act. Be wary.

And, yes, let him continue to miss you -- give him just enough to always be wanting more.

Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.