Thanks for your toughts Essie. Again she started a big argument this morning. I can't seem to stay away from getting sucked into her big black hole. I simply asked her not to argue in front of the kids and she flipped and then went from subject to subject to subject. I could not get a word in edge wise. So I left the house. I do fear separation only because of the kids and I know once we tell the kids and I move out that will be it. She is also pitting the kids against me. I don't know what I did to make her look at me with such discuss. There is no talking to her, she does not hear a word I say.
I am very upset this morning. Thanks for your support.
