Tell her you agree she needs space, dont' give her longing looks when you see her, do not linger nor read too much into anything she says, we women tend to be a bit of drama queens (ok , maybe just me) and she might just say stuff to shock you or get the best of you since she is in the "anger" mode.
The first months are the harderst, hang in there.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.