day by day

[Yoyowife]

((((LWB)))
I know it is initally so hard when they move out, but you do eventually realize the stress is lessened some. I never went through him being at home and having contact with the OW, he moved out and then I found out there was an OW involved. I can't imagine being having to see him go out to meet her like you have.

You are correct there are some silver linings through all of this.

-You don't have to share your babies and they don't have to see the sress that you have been enduring. My DD16 and I have become so much closer during all of this. She has opened up to me so much more.
-You cook what you and the girls like, if you want a Lean Cuisine and they want a PBJ sandwich, go for it!
-You can read in bed as late as you want without the light bothering anyone.
-You and your girls can go and do as you please without having to check in with him! My DD and I have at the last minute decided we wanted to drive out of town to go shopping. It is great knowing I don't have to call and say where we are going or when will be home.
-You will find strength and independence that you did not know you have!

You are an amazing woman, and I think soon your husband will begin to see this again soon!