Oh believe me BND, I have ALOT of blame in the collapse of my M. I know it and H knows it and I have apologized to H for my part. I believe if he was a WAH though, he'd have filed by now. Why not? Nothing to lose then and can fully get rid of me off his back then.

I know you're not being hurtful and just being honest. But, I'd like to know, why is it okay for you and anyone else to want their H back, but it seems you don't want that happiness for me as well?