I am working on me and I have come a long way over the last month or so.
I am and what she already has is the greener grass (no really), she doesn't see that. She wants to give it all up for nothing, certainly far less than she has at the moment. Single instead of married with a committed and loving husband, tiny flat/houseshare or at parents instead of the fantastic house we have, 40k drop in income (combined), deadbeat young single 'friends' instead of the friends we have both had for many years.
She was always really pleased at how well she and us had done, we have done really well for our ages. She has turned into the complete opposite of who she is, what she wants and what she stands for!
It was only just over a month ago that I last saw the 'real wife' and about the same time that she last said she loved me.
I know 7 weeks is a short time but there has been no shift at all, no movement and no deviation, even the small positives are only really small things. There has been absolutely nothing.
She is staying at her parents next week as they are away, I could do with the break anyway and I hope she sorts herself out, I don't want the person she is at the moment, i want my loving kind wife back
Me: 30 W: 31 T: 9.5 yrs M: 4 Yrs No Kids, 1 cat Had a bad year Turmoil started 22/Jan/08 Seperated, same house 30/Jan/08 Wanted D: 2/Feb/08 Going downhill and towards D with nothing stopping her!
